Hamilton: An American Musical debuted on Broadway on August 6, 2015. Have you noticed that many of its 46 songs relate to the workforce? For example, “Right Hand Man” is about then-General George Washington talking Alexander Hamilton into taking a promotion as his aide-de-camp.
There is a line from the song “Wait for It” I return to repeatedly. It’s sung by Aaron Burr’s character. He compares his misfortunes to Hamilton’s successes. He’s hyping himself up after being judged by his coworkers. He sings about how unfair life is and what he intends to do to succeed:
I am the one thing in life I can control
I am inimitable
I am an original
I’m not falling behind or running late
I’m not standing still
I am lying in wait
The common assumption is: Patience means doing nothing. If you’re not chasing, pitching, or climbing, you’re behind. It’s easy to mistake patience for indecision or unwillingness to make a move. But read it again: I’m not standing still. I am lying in wait. That’s not passivity. That’s strategic. In your work life it’s tempting to confuse waiting with wasting time. But that’s not how real life—or real work—functions. And it’s definitely not how growth works. Patience isn’t about pausing. It’s about preparing.
When It Feels Like Losing
Coworkers are getting promoted. Starting companies. Speaking at conferences. Meanwhile, you’re still in back-to-back meetings trying to keep from drowning in your inbox. Do you doom-scroll LinkedIn and think, “She’s already a director?” or “He’s publishing another book?” In that headspace, patience can feel like losing. The pace of work makes it feel like if you don’t sprint, then you get trampled. The pressure can drive you to make poor decisions like jumping at a job that isn’t the right fit or saying yes to a project just to stay visible. But activity isn’t the same as progress and not every season of your life is meant to be fast. Some seasons are for planting. Quietly. Intentionally. It’s not glamorous and it usually doesn’t come with applause. But it’s how success takes root. Patience is knowing when to be still. It’s choosing to wait, not because you’re indecisive, but because you’re discerning.
Patience at Work
Prepare Quietly: Instead of pushing for your next move, what can you get better at while you wait? Strengthen a skill. Build relationships. Improve your processes. Get so good they can’t ignore you. Document your wins. These investments compound even if no one sees them right away.
Support Visibly: Stay engaged, even if you’re not center stage. You don’t have to lead a project to make a difference in it. Offer help. Ask questions. Be present in the work that’s happening around you. Collaboration is its own currency. When the seat at the table opens, you’ll already be in the room.
Reset Your Narrative: Let go of timelines you didn’t choose. You’re not stuck. You’re building momentum. Shift the story you’re telling yourself from “Why not me?” to “Not yet.”
Notice Envy, Don’t Let it Lead: It’s okay to feel a twinge when someone else gets what you wanted. But don’t let that feeling force you into something that’s not ready. Instead of seeing it as a setback, use envy as a push forward. Double down on networking and upskilling.
Watch for Your Window: Look for signs, not spotlights. The right moment rarely announces itself, but you’ll recognize it more easily if you’ve been quietly preparing for it all along. Patience isn’t a forever plan. It’s a strategic posture. When the opportunity does open up, don’t hesitate. Step into it.
What do you do to make sure patience is not passive? Please share your tips in the comments.